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10 Online Dating Tips For Men

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I’ve been dating online for a while now and I’ve seen guys make all sorts of rookie mistakes when asking me out. For example, one guy asked for my phone number after we chatted, and I gave it to him, thinking that we could continue our conversation by text. No. He called me and I dropped the phone like a spider was crawling on my hand. If you are new to online dating, you may not know that there are many universal rules for online dating, but one of them is one of them: never call without asking permission.
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But these kind of newbie mistakes are easy to make when dating online. Especially if you are new to this or are used to more traditional forms of dating.

Here are 10 smart online dating tips for men

1. Choose the correct site (s).

Singles today have so many opportunities to help them meet people onlineThere are literally thousands of dating sites and apps available for all types of people. All you have to do is figure out which one is right for you. You can read articles, forums and reviews, or ask your single friends about their favorite dating sites to help you choose the best dating app or site. Most platforms offer a free registration, download, or trial period, so you can get up to speed quickly and inexpensively.

2. Add personality.

Building a dating profile is an important part of online dating because this is how you present yourself to potential love interests. This is your resume. This is not something you have to go through without thinking. Your dating profile should have a good idea of ​​who you are, what you like, and what you are looking for. Don’t know how it’s done ”> search for example dating profiles to give you an idea of ​​what to say to stand out.

3. Be specific.

Sure, it’s easy to copy / paste the same “you have a cute smile” message to every woman you match, but that won’t get much response. Because dating online, especially women, sees this kind of thing all the time, and it’s not very flattering to get your typical flirty message.

If you can’t take two seconds to read a person’s profile, then why does he or she need time to reply to you? For what reasons did you let them believe you were worth it? You don’t have to spend forever memorizing your profile and creating the perfect message – something as simple as “I love horror movies too, what’s your favorite?” or “Hey, cute dog, is this yours?” everything will be fine.

4. Respect boundaries.

Everyone sets different boundaries to stay safe and sane when meeting people online. Some people are more forgiving while others are more strict. It depends on what is comfortable for them, and it will naturally be different. One person may be happy to chat for a couple of minutes and then have a drink in the evening, but it may take another person a little longer before agreeing to go out.

There is no set rule for when to ask for a phone number or date, so just proceed with caution and don’t take your loved one’s consent for granted. She doesn’t know you yet, and vice versa.

5. Ask questions.

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If you are familiar with online dating at all, then you know that people sometimes disappear on you. You think everything is going great, and then the conversation ends without warning or apology. Ghosting has become so commonplace that Merriam Webster has added it to his vocabulary. If you want to ensure that someone does not lose interest in your conversation, you better make sure that you give the other person a lot to say.

It’s pretty simple, but it needs to be said. You have to ask questions to keep the conversation going. After you’ve talked about your job, hobbies, goals and all that good stuff, you should toss the ball back onto your loved one’s court, saying, “How about you?” or ask a good personal question . If they still disappear, at least you will know that you did your best to keep their attention.

6. Focus on the positive.

When you’re just getting to know someone, try to keep the conversation as casual as possible. Stick to pleasant topics and avoid anything that might be perceived as depressing. This means that you cannot humiliate your ex, speak down on yourself, or rant about politics. Uttering pessimistic or mean words will not arouse sympathy in many people. Single people want to be around people they feel good about (don’t they?), So try to focus on the positive, at least for the first few days when you establish rapport with your loved one.

7. Make a move.

No, men don’t have to take the first step. But if you are ready to climb a notch higher, you should go for it, and not wait. This will save time in the long run.

10 Online Dating Tips for Men
10 Online Dating Tips for Men

After you’ve flirted enough to establish that there is something in it, you should immediately go out and see if the person wants to go out on a date. It’s always great if you can provide a reason why you are attracted to this particular person, so that he knows that this is not just another date on your calendar. And make sure you include a timeline like, “Would you like to go on a date this weekend?”

8. Make a plan.

I’ve seen a lot of guys get it wrong when planning their first date. We both agreed to meet, and maybe we even chose a day, but then everything can fall apart with one phrase: What should we do?

If you’ve asked someone out on a date, the onus is on you to plan the date. Offer coffee, drinks, or dinner. Ask what food you like best and then recommend a restaurant. Coming up with first date ideas isn’t hard and it will make you look prepared, thoughtful, and competent, which is pretty attractive.

9. Exchange of numbers.

Make sure you exchange numbers with your love interest before you go on your first date together. This is mainly for logistic reasons. This way, you can send a text message when you arrive at the date location and be able to quickly contact you if you need to cancel or can’t find each other. Swapping numbers in advance also takes some of the burden off you at the end of the date, so the only thing you have to ask is, “Would you like to do it again sometime?”

10. Go offline.

Finally, the best advice I can give to online dating fans is to be sure to disconnect from the network as soon as you connect with someone. Getting to know someone in person is the only way to know for sure if you have chemistry and if you can mend a relationship.

Spending months chatting with someone online may seem comfortable and safe, but you can’t be pen pals forever. Online dating is all about dating in real life. Otherwise, you are just pretending. So go and do something!


 

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