So, you’ve seen this guy for quite a while, and you REALLY love him; but is he “the one you want”? Instead of sitting and asking yourself and your relationship questions, check out these 9 signs that you have found your future husband and simplify the solution for yourself.
1. You can be yourself
Of course, I would not like to have a relationship with someone whom I could not be myself, not to mention spending my life with them; could you? Definitely not! If you feel one hundred percent comfortable with your man and do not feel the need to hide anything about yourself – about good and bad – this is a really good sign that in the end he can be your life partner.
2. And he loves you for who you are
Of course, it will not be important if you are near him, but he will not accept you for who you are. If you are completely surrounded by him – he knows all your flaws, all your secrets, all the nonsense that make you laugh – and he really loves and takes you for it, then it’s probably a good idea to leave this person around. In fact, there is nothing better than once someone loves you for you, no matter how unusual, strange or ridiculous you are.
3. He makes you happy
When you have a bad day, he is the first to which you run. He can instantly make you feel better just by grabbing you and pulling you to him for a deep, loving hug. You can talk to him about your problems, and he will make you laugh, even if you don’t even want to smile. He makes you happy – maybe not ALL the time, but the good times definitely outweigh the bad ones. And, ladies, you should always be with someone who makes you happy!
4. You can survive bad times.
Relationships go through rather hard times. There will be a lot of controversy, disagreement, fighting, you name it! But relationships that can survive bad times are always stronger. These are relationships that are built to last a long time. If you end up with this because of the stupidest argument, or you cannot survive an extremely difficult time, then you do not have a relationship that is designed to last to the end.
5. Share the same future goals.
These are really pretty simple girls: if you have completely different goals for the future, it probably won’t work. You need to find someone who shares your interests and goals, so that you two can work on them TOGETHER. If you go in opposite directions, do you think that you are going to spend the rest of your life with this person? This is just a cold harsh truth. Therefore, decide whether you are on the same page and whether you have similar goals for your future, before deciding whether your man is a “manly material.”
6. He listens and respects you
Always be with a person who respects you, whether you are dating him for a day or 40 years. And if he really listens to what you say and respects what you say to him and all your opinions, then this is the person you need. Respect is one of the most important parts of a relationship, so if there is no respect, you need to go sooner rather than later.
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7. There is undeniable compatibility.
Even after several months of dating, you still can not understand how incredibly attractive he is. Even after 40 dates and text messages, there is still a lot of fun and talk throughout the day. There is undeniable compatibility when it comes to looks and conversation. You both have fun doing nothing together and just love being together. Is this the one you will attract in 20 years? Probably. If he has been strengthened for so long, there is a high probability that he will continue in a positive direction for many years.
8. There are no wandering eyes
When you are completely in love with someone and do not question him, you do not think about deception. You are not thinking of being with anyone else. I mean, of course, you can still be attracted to other people, this is human nature; but you would never think of acting on the basis of these thoughts or lusts. You love your man and you want only HIS.
9. You want to share with him the rest of your life.
Yes, I know – you came to this article because you wanted me to help you decide whether this guy should be your future husband. But at the end of the day it is up to you! This is also a HUGE decision; so don’t take it seriously. Think it over: who can you really spend the rest of your LIFE with? Marriage is a serious obligation – MUST be until death separates you (although of course it does not always work that way) – so think about it before you decide if you want this person to be your husband. Decide whether you want him to be the person you wake up every morning and the person you fall asleep every night.
Ladies who are married – how did you know that he was “the only one”? Share your experience with us!